It means being able to accept all aspects of oneself. Becoming integrated does not mean becoming different or better. Glover shows men how to become what he calls Integrated Males. Nice Guy does not teach men how to be not nice. This process of recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome allows men to move through:Ĭontrary to what the title might seem to imply, No More Mr. Subsequently, these men are often anything but nice. The inauthentic and chameleon-like approach to life causes Nice Guys to often feel frustrated, confused, and resentful.
If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life. If I meet other people’s needs without them having to ask, then they will meet my needs without me having to ask. If I am good, then I will be liked and loved. The paradigm of the Nice Guy Syndrome is driven by three faulty covert contracts. He also believes that he must hide anything about himself that might trigger a negative response in others. He is convinced that he must become what he thinks others want him to be liked, loved, and get his needs met. Robert Glover, a pioneering expert on the Nice Guy Syndrome, is a man who believes he is not okay just as he is. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life by Dr. 
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